the art of letting go.

soo there comes a time in many relationships or situationships where things jux dont go how you would necessarily like them to go. hes fading away. hes not calling as much. yal dont go out as often. he seems to be "out w. the boys" more often. doesnt pick up the phone when you call. as females it is in our nature to try & make things work out even though the other side may not be as willing to do the same. if he starts doing things that hint hes falling out of interest females find it in their minds to do things to maintain interest or get him to be interested again. in reality, i have come to learn through experience that it is better to jux let the situation go and leave him alone then go chasing after something that isn't stopping to look back. ive come to learn that when a man has made up his mind to let you go, it is better to jux accept it then to nag and cling on to whatever is left of the "situationship". i now know when that point is and i hope that females who are reading this will understand where im coming from. & if you are in that situation just let it go. hes not coming back. move onto something new because apparently he wasn't the "one".